Sheldon: Milk Duds, with their self-deprecating name and remarkably mild flavor,
are the most apologetic of the boxed candies.
Here’s a perfect example of my #2 truth . . . I am a bit of a control freak. Yes, I like things just so, especially my life. So when the “day” job recently began to unravel and I had no idea what direction to go. Well, let’s just say that certain “coping” behaviors began to surface. My nails haven got a little shorter; okay, so what, if I bought a box of Milk Duds, and I even played a little hooky. Big change can have that effect. I would say going to work in an office after 15+ years of working from the comforts of my home is a big change. Wouldn’t you? The bigger question for me though has been why am I letting this affect me so much. I am no stranger to change. I have made quite a few over the past couple of years; some good, some not working out quite the way I expected. I will be doing the same type of work ~ so I don’t think that’s it. Is it that I won’t be able to work in my PJ’s anymore?
So when I read this quote this morning, provided by the lovely and always timely Kim Klassen (and my inspiration Guru) over at Shutter Sisters, the light bulb got a little brighter.
We can always choose to perceive things differently. You can focus on what’s wrong in your life, or you can focus on what’s right.
So all day, I have been refocusing; focusing on all that is right with my decision, focusing on all the positive changes that will no doubt occur, focusing on this being the start of a new chapter in my life.
The Milk Duds are all gone, the nails will grow back, and next week . . . after one more day of hooky (heading to the zoo) 😉 . . . I’ll start that new chapter.
All the pieces coming together